4. Use the hands. Stroke her hair when you kiss. You can also touch her face. Use your arms to carry her, along with your body to envelop her and make her feel wanted. However, you need to remain respectful - unless she whispers with your ears that she wants both hands elsewhere, or unless she guides both your hands to her more intimate regions. Otherwise, keep it loving. Nuzzle along with your cheek, nose, or forehead.